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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That does sound difficult. However. I am in my late 30's. I have been on one date. I am a virgin, and fear I will never have sex unless I get raped.

Twice I was kissed on the lips.
Once was an unfortunate and awkward accident with an uncle saying goodbye, and once a man at work was sexually harassing me.

Nobody has asked me on a date since the one I went on in high school. So please know although right now your situation is bad, it could be much, much worse.

Please take some of the suggestions here. Fight your depression. Go out for a walk or bike ride each day. Being outdoors is always spirit-lifting. [/quote]

OP here. It sounds like you are sad and lonely, too, but in a different way.  I can tell you I went many years without a boyfriend and out of the dating scene, and being alone is a lot less painful than being in a marriage and feeling alone, but I understand that your complete physical disconnection from others is a different story.

This may be a crazy question, but what do you think is the reason you havent been on a date?  Have you asked anyone out on a date?  Are you eager to have sex, even without emotional connection?  I pretty much guarantee you that you can find someone to kiss you tonight if you live in the DC area: Craigslist.  I don't say that flippantly.  When I was new in town and wanted insta-companionship, I met a ton of interesting guys on Craigslist.  And there are countless men looking for hookups if that is up your alley.  Seriously, the "never been kissed" situation can be rectified STAT, if that's what you want.  Is it?[/quote]

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