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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you all for the reassurance. Part of the issue is that he lives far away (think Nebraska or Kansas), so it's not just "one day with our child" but multiple days, hundreds of miles away and extensive travel (he lives 2 hours away from a major airport).

I do agree that I need to get back in therapy. This isn't ok. I can't afford both a lawyer and a therapist right now though, and the custody plan needs some changes, so that is my priority for now.

Honestly just being able to vent here and be told that while I need help, I'm not crazy, has helped a ton. I was able to reply to his email last night without having nightmares about him showing up and 'getting' us (which is what I usually dream about after engaging with him). Things ARE better than they were. I just thought they'd be better than they are. It will be one day. I have to remember that. [/quote]

Where do you live OP? There are free domestic violence services where you can get counseling. If need be, call the national domestic violence hotline to see if they can pair you up with a service in your area so that you don't have to choose between legal services and mental health services. [/quote]

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