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[quote=Anonymous]OP - you are comparing your father to the loving daddy in Leave it to Beaver and its frankly doing you and your father a disservice. Daddy/Daughter Dates? Talks with your husband about marriage? You should have know that you were never going to get these things and more loving displays from him, yet you continue being dissapointed and hurting yourself.

The rude phone call was unneccesary and you bleww up at him for more reasons than just him using foul language. You blew up at him for the past that can never be rewritten  - I totally get that.

I never had a proper loving father either, he was out of the picture and my step father was emotionally and sexually abusive.  When i hear my FIL speak to my husband and call him "son" in a truly loving way, I get emotional. I wish I had a "dad", but in the end its not going to happen.

Either accept the land in whatever way its parcelled, for your kids more than anything or give it back to him and leave it alone.

He is NEVER going to apologize for his behavior and you have no idea why he became the person he did. Accept it and move it. Maybe some therapy will help you understand why you still want his love and affection when really, its not happening.

Its just torture to do otherwise.  Good luck.   [/quote]

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