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[quote=Anonymous]Op here,

I guess i wasn't able to express my feelings as clearly as i hoped in this post. I am an average women in my late twenties who is by no means a model. My personality, kindness, and general confidence in who i am internally is more important to me than my outward appearance. I just occasionally feel that externally I could/should be better and that stems from a bad relationship and horrible childhood.

My current bf is by no means a model and wouldn't draw to much attention from women in a bar; however, his career has made him more attractive and therefore caught the attention of gorgeous women. His career doesn't interest me and I believe that has made me more attractive to him. Yet, looking at these past gf's has somehow made me feel less than adequate.

Knowing how shallow my ex was towards the end of engagement, just put it in my head that no matter how wonderful I am as a person, my appearance will lead them astray. This is by all means my issue and not my boyfriends, who is by far one of the most genuine men I've met. I posted here more as a way to get this horrible voice out of my head so that it doesn't affect my relationship. I don't talk about these types of feelings to anyone close since I don't want to be seen as shallow as many of you have made me out to be. I appreciate the honestly tho, it reminds me to keep my thoughts to myself. [/quote]

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