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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, asking your ex-SILs boyfriend when your ex is  living with them is just playing dirty. Why would you ever think that was a good idea?

Maybe he really didn't agree, he just said, okay, uh huh on the phone rather than an outright no at the moment.

Stop asking in-laws. Ask your own friends and family that aren't related to your ex. It is seeming more and more like people are hesitant to get involved for good reason.[/quote]

OP: I don't understand why that's playing dirty.

It is an uncontested divorce and my ex already signed the waiver. We have settled everything.

I am a loner and honestly do not have many close friends. I don't tell moms at school about my marriage/divorce. My coworkers know but they don't know my husband. My real friends are childhood friends and they live in Asia. My family is in Asia. I am here really by myself. I work and I take care of my daughter. My ex doesn't even pay child support. I don't ask other people to help and I honestly hate hate hate asking favors from anyone. I would not dreamed of imposing this on anyone if I have other options.

This person knows both of us well. I am not sure what he thinks will happen by helping me. Is it so bad to help me get a divorce? Of all people, he should know what kind of jerk my ex husband is. I am just shaking typing this and crying. I am not playing any games. I just want to get a fucking divorce.[/quote]

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