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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm the Op -we had sex, many times now, hang out a couple times a week, talk and text all of the time but still haven't ad any discussion around what we're doing. Last night we went out to dinner, went back to his house hung-out & had sex. I couldn't stay the night last night so when I got home and got settled, I logged on Match to see if he was. He was on. So I hadn't been away from him for an hour and he had logged on. Needless to say, I wasn't happy. We've been hanging out for about six weeks now. He seems into me but the Match thing is throwing me off. And making me incredibly insecure. Should I have my guard up?? Should I ask him about it? The one thing I don't want is a casual sexual relationship. And I'm really starting to like him. [/quote]

Your choice to not have that conversation. It doesn't make him in the wrong to not want to be monogamous if he has never committed in any way to you. for all he knows you are meeting all kinds of men and he is just one of them. If you want sex with a guy who isn't exclusive or committed - great, that is that you have. If you want something different you need to talk to him and see if he wants more too. Maybe all he is looking for is women to hang out with and have sex with. To him, he might figure you are on the same page, you also are just looking for guys to hang out with and have sex with. [/quote]

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