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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]If he bought her the house then she wouldn't have 8-13K in payments to make so that's at least not fully true.[/b]

That sucks for him big time. I don't know where the balance is when you are with an unstable person. I'm in the exact scenario minus the huge amounts of money and change the genders.

Family court is TRYING to help the child have a relationship with both parents as long as she (or he) is no longer a danger to the child. On the same tokin, if she is proven safe and has more custody then typically the support amount must increase if s/he gets a job making more. It seems crazy because none of us can fathom that wealth. Would you opinion change if we were talking about $80 to $800 rather than 100x that amount?[/quote]

The 8-13K is her entire living expenses. She still has to pay utilities, household help, buy new things, her shopping, groceries.  etc.. She has NO income other than his payments so without them she would lose the house. She isn't paying a mortgage - she is paying day to day household expenses and her living expenses.

No my opinion wouldn't change. I think she should get a job of some sort and be expected to contribute at least a paltry amount to her own expenses and even perhaps her son's expenses. Seeing as she has chosen not to get employment even though the court order was that she was to try and gain employment, I don't think she is entitled to almost a million dollars a year of his money to spend on herself. I think her excuses about not giving the child nice enough things are ridiculous. Jon has had primary custody and still pays all expenses and I am sure makes decisions about camps, trips etc that he feels are appropriate. If she wants to do things above and beyond what he already gives to the child's expenses directly, I think she should finance that out of her $8K or maybe her own income. Also I really don't think the court works this hard to give custody back to men who are arrested for child abuse and to make sure they are able to maintain a safe home while unemployed after losing custody so that when they regain visitation / custody the child will have a home with them.[/quote]

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