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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you for your responses. Yes, it was planned, but i didn't know about the strip club part of it until last night, even though he has known the whole time. It is not his brother, it is my sisters fiance. And, upon finding out about the strip club, I told him how it made me feel. I told him that I felt horrible about my body and that it made me jealous (and I am the least jealous person ever) and sad. I was very honest. He's still going. The reason I posted on here was to question the validity of my feelings? Knowing all of these things, is it valid to be so sad about this? I feel like I can't breathe.[/quote]

So, learning about the strip club was basically the last straw in crossing this from acceptable to unacceptable?

Honestly, I think it's more about him not being gone at such a rough time (and you going back to work and starting the baby in daycare is a really bad time).  For his brother, that would be one thing, but for your sister's fiancee, I don't see much point unless they are really close.

Have you just stated clearly: "Honey, this is just such a rough time. It's not even about the strip club, it's just that I want you here and want your support.  I didn't realize how hard this would be when I agreed for you to go."[/quote]

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