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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why should one spouse have to do everything?

Spouse left toilet seat cover up? If it bothers you, you put it down.
Spouse left door open and unlocked? If if bothers you, you close and lock it.
Spouse leaves dishes in the sink? If it bothers you, you wash them.
Spouse leaves dirty clothes on floor? If it bothers you, you wash them?

Bathroom dirty? If it bothers you, you clean it.
Nothing for dinner? If it bothers you, you cook.
Kid is screaming? If it bothers you, you tend to their needs.

He worked all day. But so did you.
It doesn't bother him. He doesn't see the need for it to be done. So he gets to play on I pad and you get to do everything.
Otherwise, you are a controlling bitch?
According to DCUM, apparently, yes.

Sheesh.[/quote]

The issue here, like with 95% of the posts on this forum, is that it's incredibly apparent that there is another side to the story that is not being told. DH's comment wasn't pulled out of thin air. He has some reason, in his own mind, why her request is reasonable.

I agree with you that we shouldn't assume his reason is valid and OP is a harpy. But we also shouldn't assume the entire story is "DH does no work and makes nasty comments when asked to pitch in." Strong reactions on either side seem kind of silly. The real answer is "OP we can't possibly say whether DH is actually being unreasonable or is just being slightly curt without knowing much more about your relationship and probably getting your husband's side if the story in his own words."[/quote]

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