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[quote=Anonymous]You plan the party if you want one for your husband OP. That's what you do. There are probably a lot of other dynamics here between the family/friends, from outliving a scary diagnosis, from party/impending death fatigue, from growing expectations and assumptions, from the burden of long term care/party planning/etc..., but the bottom line doesn't change. If you want your DH to have a party then you throw it. If you don't want to throw a party then do something else. It is no one else's responsibility to provide the parties for you and your husband. Perhaps they've been generous to do it in the past but if you build your life on these kind of expectations you will always be let down. Plan what you want and don't waste your energy on expecting anyone else to do it for you.[/quote]
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