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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One of my closest friends and the mother of one of my daughters good friends confided me over lunch a few days ago that she had an "indiscretion" with a colleague, someone who she said is 20 years younger than her! She is 49 and hes in his late 20's! She told me he came on strong to her and how he had always had this crush on her,etc...and shes aid it just happened. She said it happened at an overnight conference and that it was a one night deal. The thing is I have no idea why she told me this, I did not want to know and now i can't get it out of my mind! On top of that we are supposed to go with them on a weekend trip in 2 weeks and I am just feeling really turned off to her and really don't want to go. My husband wants to go because its partly a golf outing too and of course my D wants to go...I cannot tell them the real reason why. Call me a prude but this just has me feeling like maybe this is not someone I really want to be friends with afterall...how to graciously bow out and also do so without having to reveal her secret? I do not approve and its very hard for me to fake it.[/quote] I would go on the trip and get over it -- this is not about you. If she never mentions it again, than yes, it probably was a one time thing that she regrets but if she keeps bringing it up and wants to talk about it, than I would probably distance myself.[/quote]
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