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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am surprised that most people if they found out their best friend's husband was cheating on them, wouldn't tell their friend. That they would still act like everything was cool, hang out and golf with the husband, and wouldn't feel that their friend needed to know.

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12:03 here.

At the end of the day you have to maintain your integrity... And everyone views things through their own lenses. I've been cheated on and and still, I'd say to stay out of it. That's just me. If you feel it's in your heart to tell then do it and stand by it. Personally, based on my experiences, I would be a friend and express my dismay yet still be supportive. Sometimes when you tell people they go further into denial (the cheated on spouse) and then it backfires right on your face. If you're ok with that than go for it. But like I said, these things have a way of working themselves out. [/quote]

I agree. In my circle of friends there was a woman who outed another woman's husband. As crazy as it sounds the person who was cheated on ended up getting upset at the person who outed her husband. The person cheated on withdrew. She's still with her husband. Nothing good came out of a third party jumping into their marriage trying to police it. A better move would have been to be a friend and just been there for a shoulder to cry on when undoubtedly her wold came crashing down.  Being a busy body is never a good idea. [/quote]

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