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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am surprised that most people if they found out their best friend's husband was cheating on them, wouldn't tell their friend. That they would still act like everything was cool, hang out and golf with the husband, and wouldn't feel that their friend needed to know.

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You have it backwards. Think about your post and how it is differwnt.[/quote]

It isn't different. It is still getting involved in someone else's marriage. Someone they are friends with and spend time with. I am just surprised that people are so against that. They would sit by and watch their friend gets STDs from the cheating spouse, maybe find out he had another kid with someone else, listen to their friend talk about poor husband working late when they know he is out cheating, go on vacations with them and still all buddy buddy with the husband - all because they believe that telling the innocent spouse about the affair and the cheating is wrong because it is getting involved in someone else's marriage.

I just disagree. [/quote]

it not just about getting involved in another person's marriage (though by your logic, of I suspect two people on a street are lovers having an affair,  I should follow them and inform their spouses), it's also about betraying your friend. If my daughter cheated on her husband, I wouldn't tell him, but I would tell her if her husband cheated on her. If you don't understand the difference, then, lets just say it is becoming increasingly clear why your husband cheated on you.[/quote]

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