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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am surprised that most people if they found out their best friend's husband was cheating on them, wouldn't tell their friend. That they would still act like everything was cool, hang out and golf with the husband, and wouldn't feel that their friend needed to know.

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12:03 here.

At the end of the day you have to maintain your integrity... And everyone views things through their own lenses. I've been cheated on and and still, I'd say to stay out of it. That's just me. If you feel it's in your heart to tell then do it and stand by it. Personally, based on my experiences, I would be a friend and express my dismay yet still be supportive. Sometimes when you tell people they go further into denial (the cheated on spouse) and then it backfires right on your face. If you're ok with that than go for it. But like I said, these things have a way of working themselves out. [/quote]

Are you upset that you found out about the cheating? Do you wish that instead you just didn't know about it?[/quote]

No one told me -- I just had a baby and was dealing with all that so, know myself, I would've been in deeper denial. I found out by happenstance and pursued it on my own and got the truth.

Also, surviving infertility is a great great site, don't dog it. I didn't use it heavily but I've been on there and it's helped so many people.[/quote]

Oh and to answer your second Q, I'm not upset now. Initially I was shaken to the core but over time I learned that it's just the way life is.. unpredictable. We're still together but we are going to divorce in the near future. Tried to work it out but there were lots of issue before the infidelity.[/quote]

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