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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just a different perspective from a husband here.  You made a reasonable call and reasonable comment to your husband.  He took a hard line (guys are frequently black and white, so this is not unusual).  The best way to handle this is to tell him (explicitly) that you hadn't expected him to cut her off completely, but that you appreciate that he did something like that to reassure you.  Then leave it.  It tells him that he did a good thing and exceeded your expectations.  It's a good foundation for rebuilding your marriage by addressing things from a positive perspective.  It goes back to the old tried and true suggestion that if you don't do it already, make sure to say one good and positive thing to your spouse every day.  And try to decrease the number of negative things you say.  Soon it will become habit and you'll be saying good and positive things more often.  That keeps the environment healthy and makes your spouse more receptive to working to make things better.  [/quote]
Yes, this x 1000. [/quote]

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