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[quote=Anonymous]Agree with what everyone is saying.  He already has women in the pipeline (I.e. texting only, first date, 2nd date etc.) plus he is still looking. He either doesn't feel compelled to be in a relationship and is enjoying playing the field  or he doesn't feel strongly enough at this point that one of the people he is currently talking to will work out that it is worth taking down the profile and see how things play out.

As others have said, you have a decision to make.  Either you are comfortable sleeping with him knowing he is likely sleeping with other women or you are not.  I know personally, I would either have to be in an exclusive relationship or I'd have to be willing to be involved with more than one guy.  Either I'm equally as detached as in yes I like him but there are others I like as much or we are equally involved.

If you prefer committed monogomous, don't make a big deal or pressure the guy into it.  There are guys out there that are short-term committed monogomous ...that they will say that's what they want and text you every day and then after you sleep with them say it was moving too fast and they need space.  Get to know each other gradually and don't rush the physical. As he gets to know you better and gets to meet other women either he will believe there isn't anyone out there better for him than you or he won't. You want a guy that feels certain and is not looking over his shoulder for something better, or feels he doesn't have enough experience to know, or ignores red flags because he wants to desperately make something work.[/quote]

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