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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait, you want her to deposit money for you in an account so that you don't have to see her at all?  Is that what you're asking?  If so I don't think that's going to work.  You're going to have to suck it up and see her every once in awhile if you want to take her money.[/quote]

Yup this. You either see her and get money, or you don't and figure it out on your own.  Additionally to ask her to deposit money to pay for school is beyond ridiculous.  And that is where I'll stop since I'm trying to be nice here. [/quote]

So what would you do in my shoes....sit around and keep dealing with emotional abuse....I'm trying to prevent this from going further while still being respectful.[/quote]

I'd take a semester off from school and get some work.  I'd move.  I'd do whatever it took.  But no, I wouldn't take advantage of my grandmother.  You are so beyond immature it isn't even funny. [/quote]

Look just because you're some snotty SAHM gives you no right to judge me. I don't have a rich cooperate husband to support me. Or parents that can cosign for me and pay my every expense. My life was never handed to me but I try to make my way. Three months ago I was working two steady jobs, 7 days a week and in school to support myself and now I can't. I was the one lending my family money because I was the only one with a full-time job. I'm trying my best but I need help.[/quote]

Um, I'm an RN sooo not sure what you're getting at with your post.  Take a semester off school and figure out a way to make it work.  Otherwise I think you have to compromise with your grandmother.  Maybe see her once or twice a month.  But yeah, if she is giving you money she has the right to make sure you are using it as she sees fit.  [/quote]

I'm enrolled in school until next year and dropping out at this point means losing all the money we paided for classes. [/quote]

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