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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Marrying these guys was awfully selfish. If they hadn't married you ladies, they could have built a life with a woman who loved having sex with them. But, water under the bridge. You might give Athol Kay and "Married Man Sex Life" a look. Generally he advocates that wives will be more likely to respond if guys improve themselves in "alpha" ways such as losing weight, building muscle, making more money, and taking charge in the household. This is particularly true in relationships where the guy is doing well with his "good beta" behaviors -- helps around the house, takes care of the kids, and generally provides the support the wife wants. These all-beta, little-alpha relationships tend to be the ones where the couples are good friends but there is no sexual spark. Good luck. Also, see, e.g.: http://marriedmansexlife.com/take-the-red-pill/alpha-and-beta-male-traits/[/quote] I agree with the "alpha" thing. Comparative to a couple of my former boyfriends, my now husband and I did not have that intense amazing physical attraction, but sex was good until the kid. Now, I am basically in the same boat as the OP. But I have to say things would do a major turnaround if my husband spent any time at all losing weight and getting into shape. I have stayed in fantastic shape. He doesn't seem to care that he is flabby and doesn't make the slightest effort to lose 20 pounds and build some muscle. It's not that hard. He simply doesn't seem to care.[/quote]
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