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Reply to "Is it possible to learn to enjoy sex with someone after years of bad sex?"
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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I could have written this - down to struggling with financial issues and the fact that I married a nice person but for whom the bedroom spark was never there. I struggle with the same issues as you OP. From a male point of view I feel like the lack of sex feeds on itself, you start to have less affection, then less kind words, etc. It becomes its own feedback loop. And what is worrisome is when you lose that part of the relationship you lose some of the natural caring. I find myself checking out, hoping to rebuild financially, and thinking of divorce. We haven't had sex in years and I do not see it getting better - if anything once the kids are out of the house I think it will get worse. Wish I could offer you workds of encouragement but hard to love with no physical affection (gentle carass,etc.)[/quote]
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