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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op - are you in therapy? It sounds like you have deeper problems that you need to deal with before you can make healthy decisions about relationships. You had a baby with your boyfriend - not a good start to stability. In your efforts to not be your mother and have have a deadbeat father you are actually going to recreate that or make a different mess. You need some serious professional intervention. [/quote] My dad and mom were both heroin addicts. My dad eventually died of AIDS. After a suicide attempt my mother went into PI of MO County and lived in a halfway house where she met my step father who physically assaulted her and mentally tormented me. I finally moved into foster care and have been on my own since 17. I have never had one healthy relationship with man. I made it through high school and college by the skin of my teeth, but over time found happiness in outdoor activities and travel. I feel pretty good about my life except for my relationships with men. I do think he is a good person, but also lost too in his own way. I am probably going to have heart to heart...see if he wants some counseling to make this work without anything toxic and if it doesn't work out I will move on and stop the cycle.[/quote]
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