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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I picture my friend will be like this in the future. Her boyfriend is exactly like yours (and do you really know if he's cheating or not? Because she has no way of knowing for sure) but she doesn't have kids yet. I have been urging her for over a year to break up with him, but she won't. If your boyfriend is anything like hers, he won't change without some serious therapy to get to the bottom of his issues. You need to get out and model a better life for your daughter. Do you really want her to be you when she's older? I hope not. I don't say this to be mean, but maybe as a wake up call. Yes, this is your fault. You knew what he was like and still decided to have a child. If you get married, it won't change. So now it is time to make the decision what is best for you and your child. And you know what it is. If you choose to marry him and spend your life with him, you can't complain or ever cry woe is me. I hope you have higher self esteem than my friend, but it does not seem like it. Which is very sad. I recommend counseling. [/quote]
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