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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know you want what's best for your daughter, but your suffering for years with this man isn't going to help your little girl. She will be happiest if you are happy. You could try sharing your genuine thoughts with your partner, even if it might lead to some fights, and see how you are able to resolve things as a couple. You say you have a happy home life without fighting, but it is a false happiness if it is maintained only by your concealing your true thoughts and feelings.[/quote]

OP Here....this is very true.  I will have to do this.

I have already made a plan B.  I feel so shitty.  I had NO father, and my relationships with men have never been healthy.  My mom's  husband dies and she immediately moved in another low life @ 53 years old. [b] I don't want to keep this cycle going,[/b] and I just don't know where to turn to for help.[/quote]
You did keep the cycle going.  Your daughter will either have no dad around or see you go from one bad man to another unless you get some serious counseling. I know this sounds harsh but you need to hear the truth.  If you leave him, I would strongly suggest not dating for awhile until you get your life sorted out (preferably when DD is much older).  I hate to say this but Dr. Laura has good advice on your situation.[/quote]

Where do I get counseling?  I am unclear on that.  Does my insurance cover it?  How do I find the right counselor? Do I see a LSW or a psychiatrist?

I don't ever want to date again.  I clearly make bad decisions.  I am so ok with just having my little girl and a small life on the side watching movies and working.[/quote]

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