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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - PLEASE get a good lawyer and not legal aid.

Dad will have to pay child support but in some states that goes away if custody is 50/50.

You are also owed alimony especially as you can prove that he was your sole source of income because YOU stayed home to raise your child.

Do you own a home? if so, I hope you are both on the deed. 
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I would look into whether or not his having an affair with is boss is frowned upon by his company. If so, I would use that as a bargaining tool.  If you don't give me X, I am going to divulge your affair to your company and to your bosses spouse. assuming boss is married. [/b]

I would go after his retirement savings too.  And then don't forget about college. get that in writing too - that he will pay for a portion of it.

Can your family loan you money for the attorney?[/quote]

Good advice except for the bolder section Nucor gods sakes given that he is the only source of income for you and your kids, don't even threaten to mess with it.

Good luck OP. just wanted to say that the cost of my lawyer was made up within three months given that I got so much more support than i thought i could. 
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