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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again. I am a woman. I have no intentions of ever cheating on my husband, but I do fear my desire to be with a woman will start makibg me resentful of being in a situation where that part of my sexuality is not being explored. To adress most of the posters so far: No, it is not like being in a hetero relationship and chosing to be monogamous. By chosing monogamy in a hetero relationship you may be giving up "variety", but you are still getting your needs met, sexually and emotionally speaking. I am getting some or most of my needs met by my husband, but he is not a woman, obviously, therefore there are some things that he just can't give me. Right now I am fine with that and I chose him to be my husband because he is truly amazing and my best friend. I just fear that this will change, hence the question. To adress the last pp, yes, my husband does know about this. I told him on our first date (maybe to see if he would run, but he didn't. ) We talk about it a lot and even the threesome idea has come up a few times. I just don't think I could handle seeing him with another woman, even if I was involved. And yes, I know how hypocritical that sounds, which is why I think that would never work. [/quote] Don't be a hypocrite. If it's okay for you to be with another woman (if you do bring someone in) it should be okay for him as well. And yes, it is like a hetero relationship but you're just using your orientation as an excuse.[/quote] I know it should be ok for him too, if we brought someone in. Which is why we haven't. If it's not ok for him, then it's not ok for me. He said he would be happy just watching, btw. I have decided it's not a fair situation. And when you say I am using my orientation as an excuse, you mean an excuse for what, exactly, considering I have said I do not plan on cheating on him?[/quote]
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