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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again. I am a woman. I have no intentions of ever cheating on my husband, but I do fear my desire to be with a woman will start makibg me resentful of being in a situation where that part of my sexuality is not being explored. 
To adress most of the posters so far: No, it is not like being in a hetero relationship and chosing to be monogamous. By chosing monogamy in a hetero relationship you may be giving up "variety", but you are still getting your needs met, sexually and emotionally speaking. I am getting some or most of my needs met by my husband, but he is not a woman, obviously,  therefore there are some things that he just can't give me. 
Right now I am fine with that and I chose him to be my husband because he is truly amazing and my best friend. I just fear that this will change, hence the question.
To adress the last pp, yes, my husband does know about this. I told him on our first date (maybe to see if he would run, but he didn't. ) We talk about it a lot and even the threesome idea has come up a few times.  I just don't think I could handle seeing him with another woman,  even if I was involved. And yes, I know how hypocritical that sounds, which is why I think that would never work.
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Don't be a hypocrite. If it's okay for you to be with another woman (if you do bring someone in) it should be okay for him as well. And yes, it is like a hetero relationship but you're just using your orientation as an excuse.[/quote]

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