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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Clearly you have an interest in mental arm wrestling and feeling professorial in explaining OR and wanting to feel a need to come back.  That said, you neglect basic human nature.  There was no love of work prior to all of this from the husbands part. Suddenly he has no more time to set things up to lead to making the baby. Now there is a baby there suddenly is no more time?!? [/quote]

When did OP say any of that? I don't see anywhere in her post where she said that the husband became interested in working late only after the baby came.  It sounds like he's always taken his job seriously and that the concern is that he hasn't made enough of an effort to re-prioritize now that he is a father.

[quote=Anonymous]Plus much of his work can be done at home but is not.  In this day and age we all know a lot can be done barring certain professions.  So nanobrain, the least assumptions that makes sense is what most have been insinuating all along.  And yes we agree that there are fundamentally misaligned priorities going on.  But it makes no sense that its suddenly pure work.  Its an escape and it's not innocent and it'll lead to something unfaithful.[/quote]

Based on what? What information did OP provide that suggests her husband is looking to be unfaithful? Just that you don't believe he could really care about his job a lot? What other fact that OP actually wrote supports this inference?

[quote]Plus don't feel you're impressing me with your definitions.  Its called Google and Wikipedia.  Anyone.can copy and paste.  As for thinking logically, search engines aren't quite there yet.  Sorry.[/quote]

I didn't respond to you to impress you or to teach you logic. I responded because I don't think its responsible to make OP worry about a non-existent problem when she has a legitimate one to deal with.

Best of luck, OP.[/quote]

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