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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I have been in your situation. I would consult with a good lawyer about how to document. You need to disengage and get out, but this guy sounds like he may go for custody. The person you married is not real, that was the facade to reel you in. There is no going back, this is who he is. Be careful.[/quote] OP here. Not sure that he is actually a narcissist, though. I have known him since he was 16 and I was 13. He has been part of my life for a long time. I think he may have hidden quite a bit about himself before we married, but the real problem now is that I am coming to terms with the fact that lies have been part of the culture of the marriage from the start. I have not been able to eat properly in several days. I feel sick to my stomach at what I yet will find out. I am truly terrified that you may be right, that in fact he never completely was who he even wanted to be for me. He said some terrible things to me today without seeing that they were terrible things. I am truly heart and soul sick at the moment.[/quote]
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