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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not sure what has happened.  DW has been getting off sexually without me for a while, like in the last year or so without me.  I feel short changed when it comes to sex frequency and I find out that she'd rather get off on a vibrator instead of fulfilling my needs first.  Im fine if she wants to do that, but if it comes at the cost of my own needs, seriously, I am starting to feel betrayed.

I have always been a nice husband, a great one in fact.  Like when I do things that I think are normal, the other wives makes comments that they wish their husbands did the same.  Not cruel, not whatever, so that can't be the reason I am turned away for the vibrator.  I wish those things were never made.

How do I bring things back to where she'd truly want me?  Me:  very fit, athletic, 6-pack abs, well kept and groomed.  She does have sex with me just to keep things enough to get going, but its like she just wants it to be over.  No intimacy pre or post sex.  Its like do me now and quickly, no eye contact and get away and leave me alone.

It makes me wonder if this can go on.  Any advice for a solution?[/quote]

Your post comes off as someone who is only concerned about himself. It's very "me, me, me, and hey, what about me?" Even when you're saying what a great husband you are, it's about how other wives wish their husbands would be as great. Get over yourself, and maybe your wife will be more attracted to you. She may think you don't have any need for you if you're so impressed with yourself. Serious answer here, not being snarky. [/quote]

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