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[quote=Anonymous]If he's in therapy, to me that would say he recognizes he's got "issues" and is working on them. My ex comes from a messed up family and did nothing to figure out why he wound up as he did -- I call it emotionally vacant. Unless the emotion is anger, he's got that in spades. Anyway, had he gotten into therapy as I did when we divorced, it would have helped us. He refused to work on himself. We're years down the road and he's in a relationship now. But I have no idea if he got help in the meantime or if she's going to be me 10 years from now. It is not fun being with an emotionally crippled man. And I can tell you from my personal experience and having dated a lot since my divorce -- it takes most men a long time to "get over" a divorce. You don't want to be his transitional relationship (understanding, supportive, there when he needs you, but then he comes out of the fog of divorce and you are not what he wants -- time wasted!).[/quote]
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