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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I see what some people are saying about his point and his concerns with your lack of ambition. That's certainly fair for him to worry about that. But if I were you I would be equally worried about his debt and his low income. If I had to hitch my wagon to one of you I'd pick you - the one w/ no debt, a decent job, a reasonable approach to money management, etc... If you're going to have a future with him then you two will also need to wrestle w/ financial issues related to debt, long term planning, expectations about who is primary bread-winner, lifelong goals (career vs. family or personal calm/enjoyment/security), etc... Don't beat yourself up - your position is equally defensible to his - the real question is whether or not you two are compatible in the long run, not whether one of you is right or wrong. Good luck.[/quote]
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