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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So... why are you having her over? Is this something your husband and yourself could get out of?[/quote]

Nope,  but I wish it was.  DH becomes an ass when it comes to his mother.  We see her, he changes and it takes a good couple of months to snap him out of being a complete jackass.  Luckily he has figured out that I hate it when he acts like his mother and it stops pretty much when she leaves.  Now, if I could just get him to stand up to his mother so her crap will stop......[/quote]

You actually do not have a MIL problem.  You have a DH problem.  Your DH should not tolerate anyone, even his own mother, calling you names or disrespecting you in his presence.  You are married and any insult to you is an insult to him.  You probably would not be stressed or hating your MIL in the first place if he set her straight in the first place.[/quote]

Yes.  This is true.  Had I known this about him, I honestly probably would not have married him.  My marriage would have ended long ago IF we lived near MIL.  Right now DH and I are attempting to work through certain things (MIL issues are a big part of this--and how I'm treated and how DH reacts).[/quote]

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