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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I was in your shoes, I remember the feeling of wanting him to take it back and apologize. And he did... sadly it was still as hollow and empty as everything he had said to me previously. In the end there is no apology that will seem sincere enough to fix this hurt.

I too saw a therapist to deal with these feelings, it is not just getting over the anger at him. It was harder to get over the anger I had for myself in believing in him, in accepting less for myself for so long. This will take you sometime to heal but know that the further away you get from him, the better.

I definitely recommend reading some self-help books if you are not comfortable seeing a therapist. I can't tell you the peace it brought me to have my doctor say "He sounds like a Sociopath..." I had done a lot of emotional work on my own leading up to this but somehow this moment freed me, made it not about me the victim but him, someone incapable of love.

I wish you the best of luck OP, you deserve love and the more you believe that the stronger you will get![/quote]
I had the same experience in my 20's and therapist told me the same thing.
in my 40's now married 10 years and I look back on that relationship and thank God I was set free.
I even look at myself then as a different person, no guilt, no shame, just peace.[/quote]

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