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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some of you posters are pretty unbelievable. I don't think it's at all unreasonable that a person should want their spouse to celebrate their birthday. Do you feel the same way about anniversaries? I honestly don't think it matters if he's "into birthdays" or not. If my husband told me that a thing was important to him, I would go out of my way to make that thing happen. If I told him that something was important to me, and he ignored it or half-assed it the way it sounds like OP's husband did, I would be that much more annoyed by the daily grind stuff. [/quote] I guess that is the question. Would OPs husband say that OP goes out of her way to do things that he feels are important to him, even if they aren't important to her? Typically these things are kind of a loop - either both people go out of their way to do what is important to the other, or neither do. There is either respect or resentment in the loop. [/quote]
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