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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  DH is sweet, funny, kind, warm, cuddly, and we have a very similar lifestyle.  I don't think I'd ever be this comfortable to be myself with anyone else.

After he cheated, we separated.  He moved in with the woman he cheated on me with.  After our daughter was born, he was remorseful and sought therapy.  He didn't just say all of the right things, but he has done nothing to make me feel like he's cheated or is any way wayward since.  He was very devoted and super present for the first 6-7 months.

[b]Since I take care of DD 99% of the time I"m not in work[/b], I don't think I can seek therapy right now, though I would love to. She doesn't take to other people at all, so I've yet to be able to hire a babysitter.  Therapy for me has to wait a bit longer.  But, that does even more damage to my marriage.

I try to communicate what I need, but I have to keep going back to those things and being more specific.  And, that becomes nagging.  And, that's a sure-fire way to end up out of a marriage, too.  [/quote]

don't worry, when you separate, your DD will be forced to be without you every other weekend and then you will have plenty of time to seek therapy.[/quote]

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