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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the website came up in history, etc., that is troubling. If it's just a popup ad, don't worry about it. If it's a site he has visited and presumably used, then that is worrisome. Can you look at the credit card statements? If he has been attentive to you + your kids and gets it done around the house and at work, then you can fix this -- provided either (1) he wants to fix things or (2) you can live with a lower level of sex + him looking at porn. If you can't, then you have to decide whether you can live with being single and having him make 50% of the parenting decisions.[/quote] OP again. Nope, not a pop up ad. This site was listed as one of his "active" sites on the Bing tab. I'm not comfortable with him on dating sites - obviously - and the porn just compounds my sense of betrayal (if we had a healthy sex life that would be one thing, but we don't and he has rebuffed my attempts at intimacy many, many times). I don't know what my steps will be after the babies are here. Right now I feel like the world has stopped and so I'm not sure what I'll do. But I know I want to be with someone who wants to be with me and is committed to being with only me. I'm not settling for less even if it means sharing parenting responsibilites as co-parents. [/quote]
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