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[quote=Anonymous]Are you considering/hoping to have children? If so, you need to understand that that you're home obligations will more than double, so if you're having a hard time keeping your head above water now, without children, it won't be a possiblity with them...at least if things remain the same. So, if you can't have kids with this man because you don't physically have the time and energy and kids is a goal of yours, you need to think about divorce. Sounds crazy and probably financially unfeasible, but marriages come in every kind of form...could you suggest staying married but living seperately--either make it a formal serparation (as a precursor to divorce) or say "I love you, but I can't take this, so I'd like to give our marriage a chance by living seperately but remaining married and committed?" Force him to manage his own household--including cleaning, cooking and laundary and eitehr he'll step up or spiral into complete filth. [/quote]
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