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[quote=Anonymous]I think the illness and the sloppiness are unrelated. He is capable of doing basic cleaning, correct? Then this is the classic fight about chores scenario. Congrats, you are normal. I do believe in marriage vows and wouldn't recommend leaving him. You have to find a way to make this work for you. If he's sitting on the couch, bring him a load of laundry to fold. Or vegetables to chop. If he's leaving dishes or clutter all over the house, get him a plastic bin and say, "since the sink is too hard, this is where you'll put things". (seriously, the bin idea worked for my brother and his wife. She would leave purses and shoes all over the house and it drove him nuts.) Start with baby steps. Let him know why you are making changes. That you feel tired and overworked. I don't think it's enough to tell him how you feel, you need solutions ready. Good luck.[/quote]
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