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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes. I have talked about this to him before.  I don't think he gives a shit to be honest with you.  I've told him that I don't have time to clean up after him and he promises to do it.  He never does. We have had the same argument over and over.
The only thing I feel would work at this point is leaving him.[/quote]

OP I can't believe how many people are saying "just leave him." There is a little thing called wedding vows, "in sickness and in health," which obviously doesn't mean anything to many posters here, but I'm glad it does to you. I think you and he need to give this a lot more work before throwing in the towel, especially since you say you still love him.

You say he doesn't give a shit about his mess. What he has to be made to understand is that it doesn't matter if HE doesn't give a shit.. you do, and he owes you the courtesy of working with you on this. His sickness is no excuse. It's just as easy to put dirty dishes in the sink or dishwasher as it is to stack them on the counter.

I think you need counseling on this one, if possible, but if not, he has got to be made to understand what a big deal this is to you. (It would be to me, too, by the way.) You may need to spell it out for him exactly what you need for him to do each day, rather than just say "don't be so messy." [/quote]

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