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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hasn't your husband ever heard that "What Happens in Vega$ Stays in Vega$??!"

On one hand, I give him credit for actually coming clean to you on his own. That shows he actually feels tremendous guilt for what he did and was responsible enough to own up to it.

On the other hand, your husband penetrated another female which wouldn't sit well w/me at all.

It's your decision OP, but I don't see how your marriage can survive this.
Your husband betrayed you in the worst way a person can ever betray another and the trust has been eroded for good.

I know you have three children and fifteen yrs together, but this is serious.

So sorry he did this to you.[/quote]

While you are right about it taking time (and effort on his part) to rebuild trust you are mistaken on this being the worst possible form of betrayal.  I can think of several far worse forms.

In order for this to work the OP has to be able to forgive - even if that takes time - and not use this as a source of "remember when you....."

And her husband has to understand he deserves not trust and will have to earn it back by even avoiding anything that could be taken as improper

Both have to work on it.  Its not fair to the OP because she did nothing wrong but it takes effort from both partners in a situation like this to salvage it,  [/quote]

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