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Reply to "DH just had bypass and says he wants a divorce "
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[quote=Anonymous]First, it is unfair that he blames you for his health problems, but remember that he is feeling very vulnerable right now! Second, you should definitely jump on the couples therapy, because you two are definitely not communicating correctly. Ultimately, OP, it DOES NOT MATTER who's right and who's wrong. All that matters is that you can find common ground and learn to communicate respectfully without fostering resentment. On your side, you can learn to compartmentalize your stress generated by your work, etc, so that you don't stress out your husband. If you can afford it, outsource your house and yardwork to lighten the burden. Sign up for those batch meals you make at a kitchen with a chef and bring home to freeze (cannot recall the name). See this as an excellent opportunity to strengthen your marriage through better communication. [/quote]
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