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[quote=Anonymous]OP here:  I'm actually a woman...(married) asking about a family situation (not my own).  So I use the word "allow" being a woman myself, however I see this as a family decision.  I would say that as a family, you decide about quitting a job with no new one in sight, you decide public v. private, you decide to have an abortion or not, you decide to send a child for non mandatory medical care (think therapy, ritalyn, etc.)  It is her body but the choice impacts many so I think it is a FAMILY choice.  What if she is bedridden?  Extreme nausea for months at a time?  Post delivery complications?  Surrogacy falls through (special needs child)?  Adoptive parents die suddenly while she is pregnant?  Doctor recommends abortion to save the mother's life?

The question wasn't about the word "allow" - in our family I consider choices that affect the FAMILY unit as being ones that need to be made as a family unit.  So putting aside this seemingly offensive one word...would you support it?[/quote]

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