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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your step son is not yet an adult and still needs his dad. Sounds like you want him to grow up and move on, but that is not happening. Yourhusband will still need to spend time with him even though the baby is here. Most young men are not interested in babies or infants. There is not a lot to see when a baby is in nicu. Just accept it. First born had the father first[/quote]

OP here.  My stepson IS an adult, albeit an immature, young adult.  I agree he needs his dad, and both my DH and I have gone out of our way to invite him to dinners and other visits as well as clear my DH's schedule so they can do things 1-1 without me.  Literally without a single exception (except when he came home to sleep here for one month), my DSS has not come over one time just to have a meal or do something.  If he turned up, it was for money.

I don't get your comment about first born.  So what?  Are you implying that gives him a lifetime's free pass to cash in on his father's guilt for his first wife leaving him?[/quote]

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