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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In my family, doing what you are being asked to do is common and no one would think of asking for gas money.  We just figure it's what families do.  Having lived like this, I can't imagine saying no,  [/quote]

OP here - and this is part of why I'm conflicted.[b] I will likely be this family's daughter in law [/b]and they are very kind to me, so I do not want to act like they don't deserve my favors. But.. We're not family yet. I've spent time with his parents and brother maybe 5 or 6 times... And most of those were to drive brother around. I just don't want to set a precedent. [/quote]

You are 20 yrs old, have been dating this guy for almost a year and think you are getting married??!! So is that why you don't want to rock the boat?
Sorry miss, you are being used and will resent your BF and his family in no time. The brother is getting a free taxi service from all, and no gas money ever appears? 
And no 25 yr old dates a 20 yr old  unless he wants to mold her - the difference in life experiences and maturity is too wide. Be careful.[/quote]

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