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[quote=Anonymous]I think you should take a hard look at how your life will be without your husband and make your decision based on that. It sounds like he won't be a wonderful ex. Will he make custody issues difficult? Is he likely to willingly give adequate child support if you have primary custody? Will he want anything to do with the new baby as it grows up? What if the child has special needs? Do you have a local support network beyond your husband? It sounds like your marriage may be over, which could be a very good thing for you in the long run, but adding a baby to the mix is a totally different story. If you could handle raising it alone maybe a baby will give you a wonderful new focus as you move on with your life, or maybe it will make your life difficult beyond anything you have experienced before. Only you can determine that. And only you can decide whether you move forward with a baby; the marriage decision isn't entirely in your hands. Good luck.[/quote]
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