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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's the thing.  Of course you have every right not to celebrate with "the toxic group."  But deliberately draining people away and then writing "declined" on someone's evite is childish, manipulative, and dramatic.  And then you top it off by going nuclear on Facebook.  Sorry, but you are part of the drama if you are part of the splinter group.  I don't buy that you simply politely abstained and someone else created the drama.  [/quote]

That is how the invite came.  You either click on accept or decline.  I declined.  There was no drama until she got on facebook.  So for an update.  It turns out there are more people than I thought that have had with toxic SIL.  People I don't even like.  When she made that post I guess she was expecting tons of support and sympathy and she only got support from a few of her minions.  She was confronted on how she treats people and her controlling ways.  She was sliced and diced and had her ass handed to her.  Even her minions could not defend her when examples her given of her bad behavior.  They went limping away like a dog with a broken leg.  Her biggest critics were some of her supposed friends.  I could hardly believe it when I read the posts this morning.

ToxicSIL husband (our brother) has now called a family meeting.  Hate to break it to him but I don't think anyone will show.  He does not have that kind of influence to get everyone together.  Especially if he plans on defending his bitchy wife.  I don't think toxicSIL will be hosting anymore family holiday parties in the near future.  Word on the family gossip vine is that 90% of the responses have been declined.  The crazy thing is SIL brought it all on herself with her self righteous post.  The only person in "my" group that posted was my cousin and he stopped after 1 post.  Compared to some of the other posts his was tame.  This was a long time coming.

I am now more convinced than ever we made the right decision to make our own holiday plans.[/quote]

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