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[quote=Anonymous]Ugly 35 year old woman here.  I agree with PPs regarding the attitude of men - all my life I've had men act strangely/awkwardly toward me because they don't want to be mistaken for having any interest in me whatsoever.  It's sad; the only real male friends I've ever had have been the boyfriends/husbands of my friends - because it's already assumed there that they won't have any interest in me, so they can just behave normally toward me.

The thing that bothers me most as an adult is not being invisible (I actually like that), but being discounted in the professional realm.  That seems to be the default position when I first interact with someone.  Usually, though, once they get to know me our interactions are very positive and their approach toward me very different.

At least I'm no longer fat (I was morbidly obese for my entire adult life until 2 years ago).  Being ugly AND fat was tough, and I would sometimes get negative comments from perfect strangers.  I think that's why I'm fine with being invisible now; it's such a relief to just blend into the crowd.[/quote]

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