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[quote=Anonymous]My DH did exactly this. Took a new job about 2 weeks before our first was born that doubled his pay (and then some) but requires him to travel 1-2 weeks a month. The travel SUCKS. But, you get used to it over time. We hired a nanny instead of day care (and with number two on the way that has been the best decision ever). She can pick up the slack that I need when he is gone -- laundry, dishes, baths, dinners, etc. Now, it's not the same as having him around, but it's manageable. And, things will get easier as our kids get older. Sometimes I wish he didn't have to travel (okay all the time I wish this). But, the extra income has made things possible for us that weren't before and we are able to save $$ and put aside $$ for college for our kids. Sometimes I do feel sorry for myself when he is in Paris for a week going out to dinner every night and I'm eating a bowl of cereal while watching RHONJ -- but we all make sacrifices. And his job can be grueling. It's not all fun and games. Bottom line -- we are making it work. [/quote]
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