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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, your post makes me so, so sad. Of course he shouldn't be paying your lawyer bills or buying your kids iPads, but I cannot imagine a good guy who is committed to your family standing by watching while you struggle to make your mortgage payment and still insisting on splitting dinner.

I generally agree with everyone else on this thread that you need to cut him loose because he's clearly not on the same page as you, but before going there, does he know how thin you're stretched? If he knows and still behaves this way, he'd come home to his stuff on the lawn with a note saying "Enjoy life at your mom's house!" But the fact that you are not young people and have been together a while indicates to me that he's just not a good partner. Cut him loose. You already have two kids. Why would you want to add a third?[/quote]

He does know, a few months ago I asked if he could pick up the electric bill just one time to help me catch up, when I had a lot of unexpected expenses hit me at one time (car repair, lawyer & doctor fees). He said if he did it once then it would be expected and went through all of my bills and incoming money and felt I should be fine. [/quote]

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