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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why not ask him to pay 50/50? I assume if you're engaged and living together that you should feel comfortable to ask him and he should be willing to pay his share. If not, than take it as a red flag. Sorta sounds like he's a mooch with bare minimal contributions and you sound like you're a doormat b/c you haven't said anything for 4 years and you feel "guilty" about asking him. [/quote] I have asked and he says that he is not there to support me and kids that are not his, and that he should not have to pay rent like a tenant, but doesn't want to split things like an engaged couple. Not sure if bills should be added up and divided by 4 or figure who uses how much and what. He says "why should he split electric for a pool pump that he doesn't use" etc. Just want to figure out what is fair and agreeable for everyone. [/quote]
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