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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's perfectly fine to say that you would rather just see SIL on this visit, that you're not comfortable having a newly-recovering alcoholic in your home after the destruction and pain that he has caused. Alternately, you ask them to visit but stay in a hotel. The amount of boundary-setting and discussion required to have him stay with you I think might actually be more difficult and painful at this juncture than just saying no altogether. As to your husband...tell him you are a pregnant woman with a young child, and you deserve to feel safe in your own home.[/quote]
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